Bitch Up, or Shut Up

I hope you did not stutter when you read the title in your head, because I am here to tell you that it’s time to step up your game. I am not talking about yelling at a barista or punching babies, but to grab the world by the balls and show them who you are at the moment. We are all a work in progress and we will always will be, so might as well let loose and enjoy your time now. For a long time I wasn’t confident with myself. In high school I would try to compensate with good grades and flex my parents’ hard work. If only I saw who I was instead of who I’m not, I am super sure that my time would have been great. I know this because my humor and my taste in everything hasn’t change, therefore everything would have been fine, and I would have enjoyed being a dope teenager. 

When I say bitch up, I mean that you need to stop hiding your personality or your taste just because it may not be people’s cup of tea. All of this hiding will make you resentful. There are a lot of things we hide simply because it is not part of our culture or your parents’ believes. This could be hiding your sarcastic dark humor because grandma thinks it’s too dry or casually enjoy a joint here and there, or simply admitting that you are not meant to be a doctor. If we bitch up, we will feel powerful in our skin, we will become free and no longer hold ourselves back. When you admit your truth its like the cosmic universe is protecting  you with its energy, and will only attract what you deserve in your life. 

Go out there and feel your inner beauty, don’t deprive yourselves of life’s simple pleasures. 

Be the Boss Bitch of your inner being.